A 'safeword' is a code word or phrase (or a series of code words/phrases), or even a physical gesture or signal that is used during sex to communicate a physical or emotional state.
Edging (aka surfing or peaking) is the sexual technique of orgasm control.
"Sapiosexuals" are most sexually aroused by intelligence.
The term monogamish was coined by Dan Savage and defined as 'mostly monogamous but with a bit of wiggle room.'
The 'money shot' or 'pop shot'/'cum shot' is the climactic sequence in a porn film where the man ejaculates. Usually on a lady.
The money shot is seen by many porn producers as the number one most important element of an adult movie.
AKA The Point Of No Return.
Santorum refers to the frothy mixture of lubricant and faecal matter as an occasional byproduct of anal sex.
PIV is the official abbreviation for typical, straight-up penetrative sex, or Penis-In-Vagina sex.
It is the initialism used in scientific papers, and has saved me many hours of my life.
This double dose of dicktionary definitions is truly heartwarming.
Knismolagnia is the experience of sexual arousal from being tickled.
Titillagnia is the experience of sexual arousal from tickling.
It just goes to show, whoever you are, and whatever you want, there is someone out there who would love to give it to you.
Who's enjoying the sunny weather? Who's enjoying the sunny weather a little too much...?
Actirasty is the word for sexual arousal from the sun's rays.
Actirasty could refer to simply fantasising about the sun and engaging in sex acts in the sun. Or it could be apparent in behaviours of seeking sun exposure, nude sunbathing, sex on the beach... and so on. For this reason actirasty is associated with exhibitionism, as in a quest to derive sexual pleasure from the sun, individuals will often find themselves in public. However, the underlying motive is not that of exhibitionistic desire, it's simply that the outdoors is the best way to get exposure to the sun.
Anyone who enjoys actirasty should remember to stay hydrated, use sunblock, and consider living somewhere with a private roof terrace.
This one doesn’t need much explaining. M.I.L.F is a popular acronym for ‘Mother I’d Like to Fuck’.
A MILF is essentially a sexually attractive mature lady. Whilst technically she should be a Mother, I don’t believe it is a necessity.
When it comes to the porn industry MILFs certainly don’t need to have children, they just need to be too old for the youth related categories. I’m pretty sure this is 25 years old in porn years.
I once got called a MILF by bunch of schoolboys when I was 19. I was both under 25 and childless. But I was just so delighted that they would like to fuck me I didn't dwell on the details.
Pictured is Lisa Ann one of the worlds most beloved MILFs.
Gonzo porn is like the professional version of amateur porn.
A conventional porn 'feature film' is usually a big production with plots, dialogue, and characters. Whereas 'no-frills' Gonzo is just all about the fucking.
Gonzo has become increasingly popular as it's cheaper to make, and often includes more intense sexual performances, lots of close ups and lengthier sex scenes.
Irrumatio, originating from the Latin Irrumāre is the proper terminology for 'face-fucking'.
It refers to an act of fellatio in which the head-giver is passive, and the penis is being actively thrusted in to their mouth/throat.
Hebephiles have a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for children at the brink of puberty.
They differ from Paedophiles whos sexual preference is for PRE-pubescent children.
Hebephilia is though to be more common than paedophilia. However all sexual preference for those under the legal age of consent is commonly grouped as paedophilia. For research and treatment purposes it might be helpful for us to draw distinctions between the erotic age orientations, as it's likely that each have differing underlying causes and mechanisms.
Gerontophilia is a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for the elderly.
Ephebophile is a term referring to a specific erotic age orientation.
So while Paedophiles have a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for prepubescent children...
...Ephebophiles have a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for those who have arrived at puberty, ie. mid-to-late teens . This is the 'barely legal' category.