Posts tagged #sex terminology

K is for Knismolagnia/ T is for Titillagnia

This double dose of dicktionary definitions is truly heartwarming.

Knismolagnia is the experience of sexual arousal from being tickled.

Titillagnia is the experience of sexual arousal from tickling.

It just goes to show, whoever you are, and whatever you want, there is someone out there who would love to give it to you.

A woman being tickled while restrained and suspended at Exxotica 2009 ©  Stinkie Pinkie

A woman being tickled while restrained and suspended at Exxotica 2009 © Stinkie Pinkie

A is for Actirasty

Who's enjoying the sunny weather? Who's enjoying the sunny weather a little too much...?

Actirasty is the word for sexual arousal from the sun's rays.

Actirasty could refer to simply fantasising about the sun and engaging in sex acts in the sun.  Or it could be apparent in behaviours of seeking sun exposure, nude sunbathing, sex on the beach... and so on. For this reason actirasty is associated with exhibitionism, as in a quest to derive sexual pleasure from the sun, individuals will often find themselves in public.  However, the underlying motive is not that of exhibitionistic desire, it's simply that the outdoors is the best way to get exposure to the sun.

Anyone who enjoys actirasty should remember to stay hydrated, use sunblock, and consider living somewhere with a private roof terrace.

Posted on April 8, 2015 and filed under A.

M is for MILF

Photo  ©  Glenn Francis 

This one doesn’t need much explaining. M.I.L.F is a popular acronym for ‘Mother I’d Like to Fuck’.

A MILF is essentially a sexually attractive mature lady.  Whilst technically she should be a Mother, I don’t believe it is a necessity.  

When it comes to the porn industry MILFs certainly don’t need to have children, they just need to be too old for the youth related categories.  I’m pretty sure this is 25 years old in porn years.

I once got called a MILF by bunch of schoolboys when I was 19.  I was both under 25 and childless.  But I was just so delighted that they would like to fuck me I didn't dwell on the details.

Pictured is Lisa Ann one of the worlds most beloved MILFs.

Posted on February 23, 2015 and filed under M.

G is for Gonzo

Gonzo porn is like the professional version of amateur porn.

A conventional porn 'feature film' is usually a big production with plots, dialogue, and characters. Whereas 'no-frills' Gonzo is just all about the fucking.

Gonzo has become increasingly popular as it's cheaper to make, and often includes more intense sexual performances, lots of close ups and lengthier sex scenes.  

Posted on February 23, 2015 and filed under G.

H is for Hebephile

Hebephiles have a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for children at the brink of puberty.

They differ from Paedophiles whos sexual preference is for PRE-pubescent children.

Hebephilia is though to be more common than paedophilia.  However all sexual preference for those under the legal age of consent is commonly grouped as paedophilia.  For research and treatment purposes it might be helpful for us to draw distinctions between the erotic age orientations, as it's likely that each have differing underlying causes and mechanisms.

Posted on February 13, 2015 and filed under H.

E is for Ephebophile

Ephebophile is a term referring to a specific erotic age orientation.

So while Paedophiles have a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for prepubescent children...

...Ephebophiles have a primary (or exclusive) sexual preference for those who have arrived at puberty, ie. mid-to-late teens .  This is the 'barely legal' category.

Posted on February 13, 2015 and filed under E.