Posts tagged #arousal nonconcordance

Am I crazy or is my vagina lying?

Hi Pro Boner I have a really weird question.  I’m in a quite new relationship, and I’ve started to notice that my boyfriend does this thing where we’ll be kissing and stuff and after a while he’ll put his hand in my pants and work out how wet I am. 

If I’m really wet he’ll get excited that I’m turned on and then we’ll end up having sex.  But then sometimes he’ll touch and I’m not as wet, or we will be trying to have sex, and I’m not that wet.  Then I think he gets turned off and kind of offended.