"Is there anything we can do to get us both ready for sex? Other than lube of course."
"I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and things are going great, we're happy and I'd say we have a pretty good sex life. Although I have this weird thing at the moment where it takes me ages to get in the mood for sex and I don't often initiate anything. But I'll want to do it at the most inappropriate times when he doesn't want to or we can't do anything. When he gets me going though its great but i feel quite bad/worried and I think it upsets him too. Any ideas what this means and what I can do?"