Posts filed under RELATIONSHIP

Persistent Bacterial Vag

I’ve been having recurrent bacterial vaginosis for basically the entire last year. Every time the symptoms appear I see my doctor and he gives me a prescription, the BV clears up but returns a few weeks later and the cycle starts again.

I started seeing someone about 6 months ago and it’s beginning to get more serious.  He’s really great and the sex has been mostly amazing, but the problem is that the BV sometimes gets in the way. In the past I have just said I’m on my period to avoid having sex when I have a flair up, but now that we’re seeing each other more frequently that excuse can’t work all the time. I’m finding myself telling him that I’m not in the mood or I’m tired a lot of the time and I feel like it’s ruining the start of this new relationship and I don’t know how to save it. I have in the past given in and had sex with BV, but it always makes my symptoms worse the next day.

So I’m wondering; how can I decline sex without making my boyfriend feel rejected? And do you have any advice for getting rid of persistent BV?

FOOT FETISH LIAR

My boyfriend has what I guess could be described as a foot fetish? I'm a straight female in my early twenties and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months. Everything is great except for this one thing I'm having an issue with. I work a job where I'm on my feet most of the day and my boyfriend would give me regular foot massages to alleviate some of the tension. I loved this part of our relationship until recently when he admitted to me that he has a foot fetish. That meant he wasn't giving me these massages for me but rather because it turned him on. I just can't get over the fact that he lied to me for so long while he was doing this. Now I don't want him to even touch my feet at all. How do we move on from this?

I have a huge dick - How can I make sex less painful for my partner?

I’ve been seeing a really great girl for about 6 months now. The issue is, and always been, I have a much larger than average sized penis. I know it’s supposed to be a good thing and all, but it's really been a curse more than a blessing and particularly with the girl I’m seeing now. Regardless of how much foreplay we have the sex has been really awkward. Often she's in pain or really uncomfortable. I tried talking to her about it but she’s not comfortable discussing the details. I do use lots of lube but it doesn't last. Have you got any tips or advice? I love sex, but I don't want there to be this disconnect. I must sound like a tool but any advice is appreciated.

How do I shave my butthole?

I have just discovered I have hair growing around my arsehole and all the way up my crack.  I literally had no idea until my boyfriend pointed it out.  I have since tried to look in the mirror, and he is completely right. Obviously this is really humiliating and I am not doing doggie anymore! And I am not going to ask my friends about this, so I’m asking you: what do I do to get rid of this, and how can I avoid the problems that come with shaving my vagina every other day?

Posted on May 1, 2016 and filed under PUBES, RELATIONSHIP.

My boyfriend says another girls name during sex

My boyfriend and I have been together just under a year and I'd say we are very close and loved up. The relationship is going really well and most of the time I’m very happy and secure in it. My problem is that on a couple of occasions he's said another girls name during sex. A girl that he used to see right before we got together… It really upsets me and puts doubts in my mind about whether he really wants to be with me. He says it doesn't mean anything but I'm not sure if that’s possible? Can you help?My boyfriend and I have been together just under a year and I'd say we are very close and loved up. The relationship is going really well and most of the time I’m very happy and secure in it. My problem is that on a couple of occasions he's said another girls name during sex. A girl that he used to see right before we got together… It really upsets me and puts doubts in my mind about whether he really wants to be with me. He says it doesn't mean anything but I'm not sure if that’s possible? Can you help?

Posted on April 21, 2016 and filed under RELATIONSHIP.